#author("2022-02-02T19:14:19+09:00","","") https://bit.ly/3s29EoM https://bit.ly/3g7Dbb3 https://bit.ly/3g7h9oU https://bit.ly/3KRDQvl https://bit.ly/3H5Yhm6 https://bit.ly/3g7hasY https://bit.ly/3ADM6dM https://bit.ly/34fQN1w https://bit.ly/342ACEN https://bit.ly/3IOfEIO https://bit.ly/3L2BZnQ https://bit.ly/3g3b4d8 https://bit.ly/34k3PLr Dr Allen's idea is not that women should not be allowed to have thoughts, or men feelings, but that a 'feminine energy' woman is supposed to ask the 'masculine energy' man before expressing a thought, and the man asks the woman before expressing a feeling. I thought this was pretty silly myself, but it seems to work for some people. Also she doesn't believe that a woman should not give back to a man, but that she should give less than she receives. A 'feminine energy' woman accepts what the man decides, provided it isn't immoral or unethical or harmful to her or her children. A woman needs to feel good about herself, so she shouldn't do anything that isn't going to make her feel good. Dr Allen doesn't recommend that the man should do everything and the woman nothing, but she thinks that men who expect women to do everything for them are Peter Pans, and she doesn't think women should be Wendys. by Louise C on 2005 Jun 8 - 04:58 | reply to this comment Pat Allen and Sandra Harmon Sorry Mike's Girl, I was not a student of Pat Allen. I was a patient who was also a best-selling author at the time, with the #1 BestSeller Elvis & Me, which I wrote for Priscilla Presley. Although it was unethical, Pat begged me to write a book for her, which I did. Two books as a matter of fact. I wrote the books, based on Pat's work, with my additions and changes based on my own research, etc. But of course Pat said she wrote it, but she did not. And by the way, the court case was not thrown out. Although I have heard that Pat tells that to people, it is a lie. The case is very much alive and I am quite sure that I will win. Pat Allen broke her contract with me and took money that belongs to me. Justice will prevail.